After eating Subway and sipping Starbucks, we headed back to Ljbuljana via train. We passed through Austria again. . only to find more snow.
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Most of my German Dreams Came True in Munich
After eating Subway and sipping Starbucks, we headed back to Ljbuljana via train. We passed through Austria again. . only to find more snow.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
I love drugs (the perfectly legal non-perscription kind)
My allergies have redoubled as a result of my being abroad, and the cough returns when I forget a day of allergy meds. Having miscalculated the number of pills needed before leaving the US, I had run out. Today, I gathered my dictionary translations for itch, cough and sneeze and I made my way to the Lekarna (Pharmacy).
The strangest part of my tale, is that Claritin is CHEAPER in SLOVENIA than in the UNITED STATES. I paid something like $12 for 20 tablets. In the states, this would cost me at least $25.
As explained in my previous blog about the Czech Republic, Europeans have a different relationship with over-the-counter medications than we in the states have. You cannot simply walk into a Lekarna, pluck the drug of your choice from the shelf, pay and leave. You must discuss with the clerk what your symptoms are, and they recommend something for you. All the medicines are kept behind the counter. I took a picture to demonstrate.
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Hvaladajedan (Thanksgiving)
THE TURKEY. I couldn't find a whole turkey, so I purchased half a turkey breast. Half a turkey breast was 6 lbs. I can't imagine the size of the Turkey it came from.
Mathilde observing the damage.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
A touchy subject
It's the sense of touch. In any real city, you walk, you know? You brush past people, people bump into you. In L.A., nobody touches you. We're always behind this metal and glass. I think we miss that touch so much, that we crash into each other, just so we can feel something. - Don Cheadle (Crash)
Articles about foreign cultures seem to always reference the differences in personal space preferences. It makes perfect sense that countries with a condensed population would have a smaller "bubble." People cram into busses, trams and taxis. In rush hour, you must wade through the crowd just to get down the street. What the articles fail to mention however, is the increased amount of intentional touching.
I am not a 'touchy-feely' person, so to speak. I've never even had a massage, because I feel awkward having a complete stranger touching me. I may not be the best case study, but the difference in amount of physical contact here is drastic.
For example, Miljan's family came to visit. We were all standing around talking, and his father put his arm around me. Something like only my father would do back in the states. He left the arm there for several minutes. He didn't intend to cause any harm, he just wanted me to feel comfortable. To the family, it was totally normal. To me, it was absolutely weird.
In class today we talked about kissing as a greeting. In France, the first time you meet someone; it is common to kiss them on both cheeks. The first time you meet someone! I have a few French friends here, and every time we meet, we must kiss on each cheek. I think back to my physical interactions in the states. I think I could go for weeks without touching anyone, unless my mother demands a hug. Think about it, we go to work, and unless you work in a field like medicine, where touching is mandatory, you don't really have to interact.
I don't have a spouse, so I wake up by myself. I drive to school by myself. I sit next to other students. I go to lunch with friends. I drive home or to work. I watch television, do homework or take calls at work. Again, no touching taking place. Even in social gatherings or parties, we get drinks and we sit across the table from one another. Really think about it, how many physical interactions do you have per day? Per week?
In Slovenia, I still don't have spouse, so again I wake up alone. But I go to school and I sit next to my friends Adel and Juliana. We are always touching. If they have a funny story, they put their hand on my back, or slap my knee to enhance a punch line. Almost every day when I come home, Miljan gives me a hug and asks me how my day was. If we have a party, or we go to a bar, everyone must kiss everyone upon introduction. Throughout the pub, people are putting their arms around one another, dancing closely and usually kissing.
I still wouldn't call myself a 'touchy-feely' person. I'm finding touching less awkward, but I do not feel the need to initiate such actions. I'm not sure yet if this is something I will miss when I get home. We shall see.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Spelunking and Korean Night



Then we went to this church. It was built in the 1400's and never modernized.